A SURVIVAL GUIDE TO SINGLE LIFE
Dating is
digging
through trash.
100 truths about dating. Personal mistakes, uncomfortable discoveries and stories from a journey through the apps.
13 truths out now. A new truth every week.
WHAT IS THIS?
Not the perfect dating guide. An honest one.
Dating is a beautiful beach. The waves keep washing up trash, but also beautiful stones and shells. Some shells hold pearls. Finding and opening them takes time, and the broken glass along the way can hurt you.
The trash isn't people. It's the ghosting, fears, doubts, mistakes and other mess that dating leaves behind. I went on around a hundred dates and made plenty of mistakes myself. This is my take on what to expect, what to question, and what to try in single life, based on my own mistakes and experiences. I hope it helps you find your way through it all.
START HERE
One truth at a time.
Ask yourself why you are dating
Wanting a relationship is the easy answer. Do you also want the everyday life that comes with it?
02 ↗Nobody is coming to collect you from home
I chose whoever happened to come along. It was easy. It was not always a good choice.
03 ↗Don’t blame Tinder for how people behave
The app makes indifference easy. How we use it is still our responsibility.
THE WHOLE JOURNEY
100 truths. More to come.
66 free truths, 33 additional truths and a final truth will later be collected in a purchasable PDF. The first 13 are available now.